Harry Jowsey spent an entire Netflix dating show promising that this time he was serious about marriage. In the Let’s Marry Harry finale, he followed through by choosing Amber Mozo and saying “I do” at the altar.
The 29-year-old reality star entered the final episode with Amber and Dannelle Davidson as his last two potential brides. According to Entertainment Weekly, he ultimately ended his relationship with Dannelle before marrying Amber, a Hawaii-based travel photographer whose connection with him had developed more gradually over the season.
Jowsey became emotional as Amber approached the altar and told her that she had helped him slow down, soften and believe in something real. He also wore his late father’s glasses while reading his vows, explaining that he wanted his father to be able to see how beautiful she looked.
The finale answers the show’s biggest question, but Netflix is deliberately leaving another one unresolved. The streamer has not revealed whether Jowsey and Amber’s relationship survived after filming, instead directing viewers to a reunion special later this month for the answer.
Harry Chose Amber After Letting Dannelle Go
The finale began with both Amber and Dannelle still preparing for the possibility of becoming Jowsey’s bride. Dannelle had become one of his strongest connections and believed strongly enough in their relationship that she expected him to choose her.
Jowsey instead met with Dannelle before the ceremony and ended their engagement. “I’ve really fallen in love with you,” he told her in the episode. “But this past week, I started second-guessing everything.” Netflix’s official finale breakdown says Dannelle initially assumed his decision meant he was not going to marry anyone.
“If he’s not marrying me today, he’s not getting married,” she recalled thinking. Dannelle later realized Amber had been chosen after noticing that Amber’s family and friends were heading to the wedding. “It was pretty easy to figure out that everyone was on their way to the wedding,” she said. “I didn’t sleep that whole night. I was up till 4:00 a.m.”
Amber’s Slow-Burn Connection Won Out at the Altar
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Amber and Jowsey did not begin the series as its most obvious match. Netflix describes their relationship as a slow burn, with Jowsey initially both intrigued and intimidated by her confidence and directness. Amber told Tudum that she had entered the experience after a breakup and was ready for someone who could bring out a more playful version of herself.
“I had gone through a breakup, and I was ready for someone to really ignite a version of me that was fun,” she said. “And that really got me excited about Harry.” Their relationship became more serious during the trip to New Zealand, where Jowsey brought both finalists to meet his sisters. Amber said seeing him around his family helped deepen her feelings for him.
Even then, she arrived at the wedding without knowing whether she would actually become his bride. “I left the day before actually quite confused,” she told Tudum. “I didn’t know if he was going to pick me and I didn’t know how he felt towards me.” Amber was uncertain enough that she did not write out her vows beforehand. “It was from the heart,” she said.
At the ceremony, Amanda Kloots officiated as Amber and Jowsey exchanged vows in front of their friends and families. “This whole process with you has been about surrendering,” Amber told him. “This is crazy, but I love being crazy with you.” Jowsey told Amber that he had not imagined them reaching the altar when the process began. “Somehow you made me slow down, soften, and believe in something real,” he said. “And here you are, and you make me feel like home.”
Netflix Won’t Say Whether Harry and Amber Are Still Together Yet
The finale stops short of giving viewers a present-day relationship update. Netflix’s own finale page asks directly, “Are Amber and Harry still together?” Its entire answer is “Tune into the reunion on Aug. 26 to find out.”
Harry, Amber and his former fiancées are scheduled to reunite to discuss what happened after filming, answer lingering questions and provide updates on their lives since the show. The reunion will stream as a separate special rather than as part of the regular season. Netflix has scheduled it for August 26 at 6 p.m. PT and 9 p.m. ET.