Khadijah Haqq says communication with estranged husband Bobby McCray has broken down at a particularly difficult point in their unresolved divorce.
In court documents obtained by TMZ, Haqq claimed her text messages to the former NFL player stopped being delivered during the past two weeks. She said she confirmed that messages from their daughter and a mutual friend were still reaching McCray, leading her to believe he had specifically blocked her number.
Haqq argued that the problem goes beyond tension between the former couple because they share Christian, 15, Celine, 12, and Kapri, 5. She told the court that she needs a reliable way to contact McCray about their children, particularly if an emergency arises.
The allegation appears in a larger filing seeking child support, $2,033 per month in spousal support and $100,000 toward her legal fees. McCray has not yet responded in court to the blocking allegation, according to TMZ.
Haqq Says She Needs Direct Contact With McCray
She told the court that continued communication is necessary “specifically regarding the children so I can keep him apprised, and notify him in case of an emergency.” The filing does not indicate that a judge has made any finding about whether McCray actually blocked her or why her messages were not reaching him.
The communication dispute comes alongside Haqq’s broader allegations about parenting since their separation. She claims McCray is not consistently in California, does not maintain a regular schedule with the children and “rarely requests” time with them. Haqq says she has consequently handled most school transportation, appointments, extracurricular activities and other day-to-day responsibilities herself.
Haqq Is Seeking Support and $100,000 Toward Her Legal Fees
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Haqq is asking for $2,033 per month in spousal support and a one-time $100,000 contribution toward attorney fees, according to documents reviewed by Us Weekly. She is also asking the court to set child support based on the parties’ finances, TMZ characterized the combined monthly support she is seeking as approximately $7,000.
Her filing puts her current household expenses at approximately $13,892 per month, including $4,512 in rent, at least $680 in utilities, roughly $1,900 for groceries and $400 for restaurant meals. Haqq reported having about $11,494 in savings and said she has relied on credit cards and loans from relatives and friends when her income has not covered the family’s expenses.
She gave one specific example involving her sister, who Haqq said transferred approximately $8,000 to her in 2025 to help pay living costs. PEOPLE reported that Haqq said she intends to repay the money she borrowed. Haqq also claims McCray has provided less than $3,000 toward expenses since their 2023 separation and has not paid spousal support.
The Filing Details the NFL Income Haqq Attributes to McCray
Haqq argues that McCray has the resources to contribute substantially more. According to Us Weekly, she listed approximately $3,044 per month in one disability payment, $11,250 in NFL disability income and $2,829 from an NFL annuity. She also identified related Social Security payments benefiting the children, with TMZ putting the overall monthly income described in the filing at roughly $18,600.
Haqq further claims McCray has an NFL 401(k) valued at more than $765,000 and separate NFL annuity accounts worth more than $120,000 and $69,000. She estimated his monthly expenses at approximately $9,854 and argued that the difference demonstrates an ability to contribute toward her and the children’s costs.
PEOPLE reported an additional dispute involving Social Security derivative benefits paid for the children because of McCray’s disability status. Haqq claims those benefits are being received for the children’s benefit but says she has not received payments associated with their youngest daughter, Kapri.
Haqq Says Her $150,000 Reality-TV Paycheck Does Not Reflect Steady Income
Haqq’s own earnings receive similarly detailed treatment in the filing. She disclosed receiving $150,000 for six episodes of Hulu’s The Girls: A Khloé Kardashian Project, amounting to $25,000 per episode.
That payment was one of several recent entertainment and marketing jobs. Haqq said she earned $7,500 over 19 weeks consulting for Below Deck, received a combined $25,000 for two Raising Cane’s appearances and worked a six-month marketing and social-media campaign for a cookie-dough company at $5,000 per month. She noted that some of those jobs required her to cover expenses including wardrobe, hair and makeup, photography or production materials.
Haqq reported earning slightly more than $70,000 in 2025 and approximately $86,000 so far in 2026 apart from the $150,000 Hulu payment. She characterized entertainment work as inherently inconsistent, moving from one contract, appearance or brand deal to another.
She also said she spent most of the marriage as a stay-at-home mother after stopping regular work before Christian was born. Haqq argues that being primarily responsible for the children now limits how many additional jobs she can accept, despite continuing to seek opportunities.
McCray’s Original Divorce Filing Sought Support From Haqq
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McCray formally filed for divorce on August 16, 2024. In that filing, McCray cited irreconcilable differences, requested joint legal and physical custody of their three children and asked to receive spousal support from Haqq while seeking to terminate the court’s ability to award spousal support to her.
Haqq and McCray married in July 2010 after several years together. When she announced their separation after 13 years of marriage, she said the decision had not come lightly and expressed hope that they could move forward honestly and begin “the journey of co-parenting.”