Beartooth’s Caleb Shomo and Wife Fleur Jointly File for Divorce After 14 Years

Caleb Shomo
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Beartooth frontman Caleb Shomo and his wife, Fleur Shomo, have jointly filed for divorce after 14 years of marriage.

The spouses submitted the case in Los Angeles Superior Court earlier this week, according to Page Six. They do not have children together.

The filing comes nearly two months after Caleb publicly came out as gay and Fleur confirmed that their marriage had ended. Both spoke openly about the pain surrounding the separation while continuing to express care and support for each other.

Fleur Had Already Confirmed Their Marriage Was Over

Caleb and Fleur married in April 2012. On May 23, hours after Caleb described himself publicly as “a proudly gay man,” Fleur shared her own statement about the end of their relationship.

She described the preceding months as disorienting and painful, explaining that she was trying to support someone she loved while also grieving the life they had built together. Fleur said their marriage had included years of love, adventure and happiness before concluding, “Our story was a good one. And now it is done.”

Shomo Called Their Coming-Out Conversation “Really Difficult”

Caleb later discussed telling Fleur during a June 10 appearance on the Disrespectfully podcast. He recalled crying as he tried to explain feelings that he had avoided confronting for years.

He said fear made the conversation difficult to express clearly, but he eventually told Fleur that he did not want to keep running from his attraction to men. Caleb said he began therapy immediately afterward and was still working toward accepting and forgiving himself.

During the same interview, he discussed growing up in a deeply religious environment where homosexuality was treated as something that could be changed through prayer. He connected those teachings to the shame and fear he carried before coming out.

His Announcement Also Introduced a New Beartooth Chapter

In his May statement, Caleb said he had spent years suppressing his sexuality and using alcohol to avoid examining the source of his depression and self-hatred. Sobriety, therapy and new creative work eventually pushed him toward addressing those feelings directly.

The band released “Free” in February, with Caleb describing it as the beginning of a new chapter in both his life and his work.

Caleb later said Beartooth’s upcoming album, Pure Ecstasy, would be his most honest work, shaped by his decision to stop concealing parts of himself.